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受困惑的同志求助者提问: :

xing xing原来西方的GAY和东方一样,也都结婚了,然后偷摸出来找乐子呀? GAY的世界的是不乐观啊。请看一段美国同志的自白:But to be honest with you that’s really just meeting for sex basically. . . I think the bulk of people that are on these sites are notreally looking for a long term relationship, because it’s so easy togo and have anonymous sex whenever you want . . . I think thatbeing realistic with what I know about the gay lifestyle and gay relationshipsI don’t really have a terribly high confidence of meetingsomeone that is potentially wanting the same thing as I, which isto settle down in a monogamous relationship and to live together.[ . . . ] I usually find out that they’re either married or they’ve got a partner they’re not telling me about, or they want to have an openrelationship or something like that.

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你误解了,他说的是同性婚姻。何况,这样的状态(婚后又在婚外与他人有关系),在异性倾向和异性婚姻中也很常见。恰恰因此使一些多学者认为婚姻本身可能已经是一个过时的概念。